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Consent, not spyware

Ownedgaze is for adults in a consensual Dom/sub dynamic (paired or solo self-gate). The sub must knowingly install the app and grant screen-capture permission. It is not parental control, not MDM for children, and not a tool for secret monitoring of an unaware partner.

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How is this different from parental control?

Parental-control and school MDM products lock down a child’s or employee’s device for safety or compliance. Ownedgaze is an adult kink tool: Dom ownership of a sub’s gaze and allowed NSFW (or solo self-gate), not family filtering or corporate kiosk mode.

We deliberately avoid parental-control aesthetics and messaging. If you need child safety tooling, use products built for that, not Ownedgaze.

Why isn’t this stalkerware?

Covert stalkerware hides on a phone, steals data without the owner’s knowledge, and often targets partners without consent. Ownedgaze requires the sub’s installation and capture permission (and an explicit Dom contract when paired). Dom-held keys and sealed payloads are about privacy between the pair and the operator, not stealth against the sub.

Using the app to monitor someone who has not agreed is forbidden under our acceptable use rules. We may refuse invites or suspend accounts when those rules are broken.

How can the sub stop?

  • Revoke screen-capture permission, force-stop, or uninstall the app.
  • If paired: ask the Dom to cancel the contract.
  • Delete the account in the app (You): pairing data including shared chat is erased; the Dom is notified when paired.
  • Contact operators during beta: beta@ownedgaze.com.

Stopping the agent or powering the phone off is visible to the Dom as downtime (when and for how long) so they can respond in-dynamic. That is accountability, not stealth. Airplane mode alone is not treated the same way; see When ownership goes dark.

Signals are not unbreakable control. Honesty about limits is part of consent too.

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